What differentiates “sex” from “lovemaking?
Most people are having superficial sex without really realising what is going on, on an energetic/spiritual level. Empty sex with just anyone, we create more wounding & trauma for both.
Let’s understand what truly unfolds in a Conscious Lovemaking:-
– Everytime you make love, you are opening yourself to deeper initiations.
– The lingam is a wand of light & as it enters a woman’s yoni temple & shines light of consciousness the darkest portal of a woman’s being (the womb) which holds the unconscious, it is bound to stir up A LOT.
– The wand of light wishes to fulfill highlighting all that remains in the unconscious of the woman’s psyche, (which is also the extension of the man’s psyche)
– Everytime he penetrates her, he is merging with her consciousness & therefore his own.
– He has a chance each time to rebirth every time he penetrates her with love & so does she. She has the capacity to rebirth both of them & the relationship patterns, every single time they make sacred love.
– When this force of light moves through a woman’s womb unconsciousness portal it is going to blast away anything that is not pure consciousness..
– This is where the shadows start to arise. As light shines upon darkness & casts its shadows.
– And if there is limited safety or presence from the masculine side of the relationship, then the woman’s emotions are going to be extreme & “chaotic”.
– Because she is alchemising not only her own unconscious, but his also as she has received so much of him through the act of lovemaking.
What differentiates “sex” from “lovemaking?
– PRESENCE & MINDFULNESS!
Soulful suggestions:-
– Turn your phones off an hour before lovemaking and connect to yourself and your beloved.
– If you’re feeling stuck, move or shake your bodies to get out of your head.
– Maybe you need to have a cry or a clearing conversation.
– Come into the moment.
– Breathe together deeply.
– Look into each other’s eyes.
– Feel the belly rise and fall with the waves of love in your heart and desire in your bodyLet go of the goal to get anywhere
– Take in your beloved’s smells and textures
– Let your beloved take in your sounds
– Slow down.
– Notice what your beloved responds in pleasure to.
– Speed up and then slow down again if you lose loving presence
– Embrace your wildness and theirs.
Bite… moan… ravish… scream… laugh… cry… receive…give…ask for what you desire.
Breathe. Sound. Stay in your body. Slow down. Speed up. Slow down again.
SheetalRaj