What is an orgasm?
I did not connect to this term 4 yrs ago. It didn’t exist in my experience & was Latin for me! I didn’t even know a Woman can pleasure herself. I have been to the other end of the spectrum where disconnection with my body & numbness was “way of life” I didn’t even realize I inhabited a body. Sex felt like a “sin”& my body felt “alien”
And cut to today, I can author an epic book on Orgasm in ways that’s never been written before!
So, what’s an Orgasm??
The common understanding of orgasm is that it is a sharp, quick, and intensely pleasurable sensation in the genitals. Yes, this is an orgasm but only a version of it. This is called peak orgasm.
What is Tantric Orgasm?
Firstly, Tantra is way of Life . It is NOT black magic nor is it Group sex.
Tantric orgasm is an experience of being expanded beyond your physical body, of being deeply connected to all of life. It is essentially an experience of FEELING ALIVE!
Lets burst few bubbles first:-
1. Our partners are the ONLY one who give us orgasms:- Yes, having a partner might make this experience more intense because of the chemistry between us and emotions that are involved. In fact, a partner can open us up only to the degree that we are already open. And your divine Counterpart, is the one who is capable of holding space for that opening to reveal itself. He will partake in the process of the UNFOLDING!
2. Orgasm is a response to stimulation:- We are disconnected from our senses. And in order to feel at least something, we taught ourselves to have a lot of stimulation. So we become obsessed with stimulation. There is also a lot of fear hidden in that: fear of not feeling. And this is nothing but the fear of the unknown. So we move really fast in order to get to a desired outcome or bring our partner there. However, if we would drop the idea that in order to feel we need stimulation and instead relax into our bodies, release any agenda, release even the goal of orgasm, and drop into any sensation that is present, we would open ourselves to life, to the mystery, and therefore to tantric orgasms
An orgasm does not necessarily have to be a sexual experience related to genital touch or penetration. Both sexual and non-sexual pleasure are an orgasmic experience.
Eye gazing can be orgasmic! Delicious food can be orgasmic!
What’s your understanding of the term “Orgasm??
I am all ears!
SheetalRaj