We are categorically ENGRAINED that our :-
– Hair has to be smooth; curls, straight, long/short
– Eye brows need to have a perfect ARCH
– Skin has to be FAIR
– Nose has to be slender
– Lips have to be pink
– Breasts need to be Fuller
– Stomach has to be FLAT
– Back has to be sexy
– Legs have to be long
– Toe nails have to be round
– Vital stats has to correspond to a 36_24_36
All of us have been through this enomorous pressure of looking PERFECT!
BEAUTY got replaced by PERFECTION!!
All my last love interest found me extremely unattractive & imperfect. There isn’t an organ in my anatomy that wasn’t judged & criticized. And not just with me one on one but in large social gatherings. For the longest time I bought that lie
“I was unattractive coz I’m imperfect!! And I devoted lots of years TRYING to get to PERFECTION!
When the advent of my travels, my LIFE in true sense commenced. I realised everytime I was TRYING to conform to a given norm in the rule book of perfection, I was actually in essence,
– drifting away from myself
– digressing from my wisdom
– disconnecting with my power
– discounting my beauty
– decreasing my self esteem
– detoriating my self worth
Only when I got in the Lap of Nature, Mother Gaia held my hand & led me to MYSELF, towards my own TRUTH!
We as Women don’t need to follow any rules in order to look alluring. Men who geniunely love you, will CELEBRATE you for WHO YOU ARE!!!! PERIOD!!!
Ofcourse it’s amazing to look ENCHANTING by taking efforts but GLORIFYING yourself JUST TO GET ACCEPTED & LOVED is a sign of POOR SELF ESTEEM!
STRIP AWAY the layer of Illusion of
“BEAUTIFUL = PERFECTION!!
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!!
Only when you tap your truth, your inner radiance, & embrace your so called flaws (lack of a better word) can you really scale the zenith of your BEAUTY & SENSUALITY!
YOU don’t have to possess an hour Glass figure to feel captivating
You don’t have to have perfect breast to keep your man hooked to you!
You need to PERFect Way to ACCEPT all of YOURSELF fully with full OOMPH, GRACE & DIGNITY!!!
CHUCK that checklist!!!!!
REJOICE for WHO YOU ARE in the Now, for MORE to be showered upon you!!
Emphasis on WHAT you FEEL within the confines of your bones & what is your body COMMUNICATING to you?
What does it really wanna??
I’m BEYOND the checklist for ages now, & when I catch myself going back into the loop, I simply REAFFIRM this to myself!
RAW is SEXIER!!!
Sheetal R Ahuja