Have seen such dynamics in several clients/friends.
Here is my perspective! I clearly know what works & what DOESN’T!!!! The RED FLAGS!!!
PICTURE THIS!
The last thing a man after a day long endeavour is to come home to another battlefield with his Woman.
If a woman has had a terrible day, she certainly can SHARE her woes with her man, but PROJECTING her issues on him BACKFIRES!!!
Certain emotions REQUIRE the woman to DEAL & CONTAIN WITHIN HER OWN CONTAINER/VESSEL for which she doesnt need to take recourse to her partner.
Your MAN ISNT HERE TO MANAGE your emotions!
HE is NOT your THERAPIST!
Its NOT his job at all!
Your emotions are for you to ADDRESS! Its unfair to blow your emotions out of proportion on him.
As a woman, we need to learn to:-
– sublime
– manage
– maneuver
– alchemise our emotions
Just as how a man sublimes/alchemises his Ejaculation! Thats for him to hold & deal!
With my stint in Tantra studies on Sacred Sexuality, one of the tools that can help women in this case is :-
– WORKING WITH HER MENSTRUAL CYCLE
– ATTUNING TO HER WOMB
– LEARNING THE ART OF HOLDING A MASCULINE CONTAINER that supports PARTNERSHIP!
– Higher levels of Awareness
– Self Mastery tools
Instead, turn to your soul tribe of women for support & free up that energy so that you can return to your man to the temple they are creating in full feminine service, sovereignty & power.
Ofcourse; you will sit & discuss things as a couple but NOT every emotion is his responsibility to manage!
Process your emotions with your WOMB & you will witness the TRANSITION!
Satnam!
Sheetal R Ahuja