What is Manipulation? A subtle art of “twisting/tweeking the facts, to get the desired outcome/consensus
Manipulation can be done in ways of Direct (bullying, coaxing, emotional drama, fear, judgement) Subtle (falling sick, creating issues for self in unhealthy ways to get attention & desired outcome)
Ex:- – a child throwing tantrums – creating troubles for self in order to attract partners attention – projecting fear on the other just so that they give into your demands
How many times have you heard – If you truly love me, you will do ——– or you won’t do ———- – choose ——– or me? – If you do this or don’t do this you will be punished and bad luck will befall – I’m not getting a good feeling about this. My heart is sinking
People resort to MANIPULATION in order to CONTROL the given situation & derive a desired OUTCOME They use allies such as drama, fear, judgement, bias, projection, confusion, grief, trauma etc to keep the other STUCK & LOCKED in LOOPS OF PAIN & SUFFERING
Why do people Manipulate? They want to hold on, enslave & captivate their loved one in the name of love (Jesus!!????)
In the pretext of not willing to go beyond their comfort zone & never rise up to the ocassion they enjoy playing the VICTIM ROLE to an Oscar winning calibre!
They do not want to access their own innate core power & inner knowing coz that feels like an effort to them & hence they live off other people’s energy & become ENERGETIC vampires!
They condemn, judge, criticize, blame, project fear, emotional drama, in order to stop their loved ones from choosing their highest good.
Truth be told Every being on this planet on a deep level, KNOWS WHAT’S GOOD FOR THEM! It’s their choice to access this knowing & exercising their right to Soveriegnity!
True love is allowing the other to take SOVERIEGN CHOICES and if that stirs your pot, there a lot for you to work upon on self, rather than caging the other who is all s2 w
sheetalrahuja555a lot for you to work upon on self, rather than caging the other who is all set to soar high! I have seen this so closely in my own environment & I have risen above this even in face of being labelled as a REBEL Coz I am most answerable to SELF Love is being NEUTRAL & holding a safe space for your loved ones to CHOOSE their own path & honour their soul’s call! A drama projected, restrictions imposed are signs of MANIPULATION And sometimes it’s so deely engrained & subtle, they dont even realise it! Love is TRUSTING & ALLOWING to be led! Love is hearing your own inner voice & not acting out of fear & drama If you can’t hear your TRUTH do not stand in way of the other who is standing tall in their powers! What you see most rampantly is MANIPULATION! Manipulation is being needy, gasping, controlling & acting out of fear & insecurity Love is tapping into INNER KNOWING! Hope this post helps in explaining the distinction Next time examine Are you truly in LOVE or are you “Manipulating???? Sheetal R Ahuja
sheetalrahuja555a lot for you to work upon on self, rather than caging the other who is all set to soar high!