The word “intimacy” is pretty skewed & most misunderstood. Here is what it’s widely seen as:– nudity- lust- arousal – sex- heat of the moment- physical need- quick orgasmAll of the above are minuscule aspects of “intimacy” comprising 5% of itSo what’s the other 95%?True Intimacy entails:– transparency- vulnerability- giving access to the other in your space – being penetrated not just by his lingam but by his intensity, mindfulness & purpose- radical honesty- authenticity- softness- complete surrender- devotionStripping clothes & having sex is not being physically responsive to each other, it’s way beyond being intimate!One can be intimate by a soulful eye gaze, without even a touch!One can reach the bliss of ecstasy just by the fervor of the desire felt, to merge with the beloved, even if they are geographically apart!Intimacy is the depth of devotion one extends to the other in celebrating the beloved for who they are!So what is truly needed to be intimate?SUPERLATIVE DEGREE OF SAFETY that one needs to establish within SELF, only then can you ALLOW your beloved in your CORE!Else your partner will only penetrate you at your genitals & you might still feel “high & dry or empty” The longing The cravingThe yearning The desire that a Feminine feels for intimacy is beyond description. Yet to achieve that she needs to cultivate SAFETY How does one create safety within?- establishing a strong fundamental connect with your body & tunning into the depth of your emotions, however messy or painful it is- restoring connection with Source. That enables the person to feel supported, held & anchored into the frequency of Love – of Life of all that there is! Connection to Source is the prima facie requirement to feel ALIVE, GRATEFUL & willing to let Spirit fill you up with Grace!If you can’t be pierced & filled by all of Life, chances are the penetration sex with your partner will never reach the depths of your soul! Intimacy is SHOWING up bravely in spaces you don’t feel worthy, good enough, and yet willing to be claimed & received by your belovedIt is a deep-rooted sense and innate knowing of “BELONGINGNESS” True Intimacy lasts beyond a quick wave of orgasmIt FUELS your being!! Intimacy doesn’t necessarily mean with your beloved It can be with your parents, with friends, with your therapist, and most importantly with SOURCE! – Hug yourself & give yourself a soothing massage- Have a heart to heart conversation with your best friend- Cry in front of your confidante- Pour out your heart to your therapist- Breathe into Nature- Merge your heart with God- Surrender to your BelovedThat is JUICY INTIMACY!! Rest all is jazz which amuses me as always! Have an intimate day!
