Addressing something that I asked most often
Let’s explore each individually
Masturbation:-
– Is very goal orientated towards orgasm
– Restricted to genitals
– is a mechanic process to feel fleeting moments of ectasy
– very focused towards immediate sexual gratification
– very linear in approach.
– involves stimulation of ONLY genitals. Other organs are not involved at all
– is super quick (5-10mins)
– Masculine approach to bliss (doing, focused, goal orientated & action based)
– words are “I’m horny, I’m turned on, I wann f$#@ck
Self Mastery
– is not goal oriented. It isn’t intended towards Orgasm.
– it’s TURNING ON the Orgasmic potential in the body to lit up your spirit
– it is UNRAVELING of your sensations by cultivating PRESENCE to every wave of emotion that arises in you
– embracing every emotion lodged in every organ of the body
– it’s a process of navigation within your being. It’s reviewing what every iota on your being is feeling, registering with your kind loving passionate touch
– idea is to SLOW DOWN in order to uncover every sensation
– It’s full of mindfulness & awareness
– it is very feminine based approach of bliss (slow down, mindfulness, receiving the body, being one with every emotion)
– words are “I’m activated & ignited by my spirit, I’m sexually charged & I’m feeling ALIVE ready to burst into my divine effervescence!
I am not here to advocate one over the other.
It’s only to DISTINGUISH between the two!
There is a stage where masturbation slowly transcends into Self Pleasure.
I term Self pleasure as SELF MASTERY & self DEVOTION!
It’s a form of Prayer for me & it connects me with the Source in alleys of pain, tears ecstasy & self ACCEPTANCE!
My body sings to Self Pleasure
What about you??
Sheetal R Ahuja