Intimacy is often confused with only sex. It actually way more than the physical act.
To receive optimum pleasure in sex, you got to enjoy deepest intimacy levels.
To review your own Intimacy levels, I invite you to introspect this for yourself & see where you see stand!
– How vulnerable can you be with your partner & let them know about your deepest fears?
– How true can you be towards your own core truth?
– How confident do you feel to let your partner know your exact state of mind specially when you are not feeling up to the mark?
– How important is “transparency” & “heart to heart conversation” for you & your partner?
– How often do you let your partner in your inner world that no one else has access to?
– How deeply can you dive in your own shadows?
– How safe do you feel to expose your limitations without fearing being judged?
– How comforted do you feel by your partner?
– What role do you play in extending warmth, security, loyalty to your partner?
– How honest can you be with yourself & let that spill over with your partner?
– How honestly could you express your sexual preferences to your partner minus any qualms?
– How geniune can you be in your EXPRESSION?
– Do you feel safe to speak your truth?
– Can you trust your partner fully? And stay in a “rested frequency of peace while you are alive (rest in peace is first applied to living beings)
– How deeply can you love unconditionally?
– What is your level of ALLOWANCE of letting your partner pleasure you?
– Do you harbour “genital shame?
– How matured is your love story to sustain a juicy and orgasmic sex life?
– How ORGASMIC is your day to day life??
These are things I often review & work towards it.
Honesty is the new definition of INTIMACY for me!!!
What’s yours??
Sheetal R Ahuja